The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags with Natasha Burton

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It was great fun chatting with Natasha Burton, co-author of “The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags,” a dating advice book based on the blog BigRedFlags.com, which she founded with her writing partners Julie Fishman and Meagan McCrary. Natasha, Julie, and Meagan are all Los Angeles-dwelling Pisceans who met while earning their Master’s degrees in creative writing from the University of Southern California. This is their first book.

Natasha is currently the Relationships Editor of Glo.com, a women’s lifestyle website, and her work has appeared in People, Glamour, WomansDay.com, FHMOnline, and Outblush.com. When she’s not grilling her friends about the most intimate details of their love lives, she’s working on her next advice book project.

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